Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Jane Bonsy with the following comment:
Jane and Thomas Bonsy are, I believe, my 4xgreat grandparents through Ann Boncey, Margaret Williams, Miriam Jones all from Wales then William Loftas Wilde and Fred Wilde from Yorkshiresorry I can't help - but many thanks for taking the photo, creating this website and linking it to Ancestry